Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates

❤️‍🔥 Electrify Your Relationship ❤️‍🔥 Deepen Your Growth ❤️‍🔥 Expand Your Love
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Did you know that satisfaction for couples is higher when they learn something together or do an activity together, more than even going to couples therapy? (source)

Is your relationship okay, or coasting, but you know it needs to be MORE to meet the needs of your family and community, and your personal growth goals?

Have you struggled to keep the passion alive, or clear resentments, or feel good about your life and responsibilities together?

Do you struggle to find the time (and energy) to prioritize your relationship amidst the chaos of work, family, and our GO GO GO culture?

Are your pesky, or painful, relationship dynamics keeping you stuck in lower levels of relating? Are you ready to grow past what you have been repeating to create something new and nourishing?

Do you look forward to connecting with other couples on the path of conscious relationship, and feel like it’s hard to find your tribe or others who “get it”?

Did you know that satisfaction for couples is higher when they learn something together or do an activity together, more than even going to couples therapy? (source)

Is your relationship okay, or coasting, but you know it needs to be MORE to meet the needs of your family and community, and your personal growth goals?

Have you struggled to keep the passion alive, or clear resentments, or feel good about your life and responsibilities together?

Do you struggle to find the time (and energy) to prioritize your relationship amidst the chaos of work, family, and our GO GO GO culture?

Are your pesky, or painful, relationship dynamics keeping you stuck in lower levels of relating? Are you ready to grow past what you have been repeating to create something new and nourishing?

Do you look forward to connecting with other couples on the path of conscious relationship, and feel like it’s hard to find your tribe or others who “get it”?

What will be your legacy of love?

Evolutionary Couples is a year-long journey designed to elevate relationships through deepened emotional intimacy, enhanced erotic connection, and improved conflict navigation.

Created by Violet and Jason, it offers couples live coaching calls, community support, and guided “Epic Date Nights” to reignite passion, foster playfulness, and transform relational dynamics. The program focuses on creating lasting love and growth for couples through intentional, structured activities, with an emphasis on building a supportive network and shared personal growth.

The experience includes coaching, Q&As, community, and 12 guided epic date nights to change the trajectory of your relationship forever.

12 Epic Dates is the self-paced portion of Evolutionary Couples and is available to purchase as a stand-alone experience.

Jason and Violet’s relationship purpose is to Radiate Love & Inspire Others into their Orbit of Depth & Fun.

They coach men and women towards success in dating, intimacy and relationships, with over twenty years of combined experience.

Through their own journey, individually and together, they’ve worked through anxious / avoidant attachment patterns, reverse polarity, power dynamics, financial stress, parenting challenges, sexual trauma, fertility struggles, chore complaints and more.

Jason and Violet believe relationship is a spiritual path; it’s not easy, but with intention, you CAN cultivate ease…as well as passion, connection, and trust.

They met in a dream that Violet had, three weeks before meeting in real life (at a meet-up event on lucid dreaming!) But the heart of their love story is in the messy, hard, playful work they’ve put in over ten years, to make their cosmic dream a reality for themselves and for other couples.

✨ What Makes This Different ✨

We hold the structure and vision so you can thrive as a couple and step outside your normal lives to reprioritize your connection.

This helps you (feminine partner) to feel less resentful that your masculine partner isn’t doing enough or isn’t doing it “right,” and this helps you (masculine partner) to feel less anxious about not knowing what to do or how to lead your feminine partner. Through this course, you will learn how to lead and positively influence your relationship in powerful and authentic ways.

We know how challenging it is to make a relationship exciting and meaningful when parenting, living together, working from home or long hours away, navigating illness or aging parents, and more.

So we want to make it easy for you to drop in together and build a relationship that is a resource to depend upon and lean into, instead of a stress point. The program is designed to nourish and support you as a couple and as individuals. And it’s designed to give you a connection to other couples who are growing too.

All it takes is one person in the relationship to grow, and the whole dynamic shifts.

But when you both grow TOGETHER, rapid expansion is possible!

12 Epic Dates Course Structure

This is included as part of the Evolutionary Couples Program, or can be purchased seperately. Each month has two dates planned out for you step-by-step: one Polarity date to increase your passion & desire, and one Themed date to increase your fun & connection.

  • Epic Date #1: Polarity — Heart Energy
  • Epic Date #2: Creativity & Play
  • Epic Date #3: Polarity — Romantic Energy
  • Epic Date #4: Adventure
  • Epic Date #5: Polarity — Spiritual Energy
  • Epic Date #6: Purpose & Discovering Your Shared Why
  • Epic Date #7: Polarity — Primal Energy
  • Epic Date #8: Sex
  • Epic Date #9: Polarity — Reverse Polarity & Power Dynamics
  • Epic Date #10: Clearing Resentments, Relationship Repair, Chores & More
  • Epic Date #11: Finances & Cultivating Abundance in Your Lives
  • Epic Date #12: Polarity Integration & Creating Your Own Container
  • More bonus dates will be added over time

Evolutionary Couples Program Structure

  • 12 Epic Date Nights pre-recorded course, created by Violet & Jason
    • One dates a month for 12 months (or however frequently you want)
    • Everything you need is mapped out for you, with videos, relational prompts, fun activities, playlists, date outfit ideas, and more
  • 4 Live Couples Calls* led by Violet & Jason
    • Quarterly co-ed calls
    • Q&A, coaching, partner practice, polarity, and more
  • 3 Live Men’s Calls* led by Jason
    • Specific practices & support for men in a committed partnership
  • 3 Live Women’s Calls* led by Violet
    • Specific practices & support for women in a committed partnership
  • Ongoing Community Support & Inspiration for both women and men
    • Separate WhatsApp app groups for women and men
      • Agreements will be in place to honor your partner & your couple bubble in these spaces, while still receiving support
    • Ongoing Alumni couple calls after the program completes

*All Live Calls will be recorded. You’ll have lifetime access to those as well as the 12 Epic Date Nights content so you can practice any time… especially when you want to dial up the passion or dial down the arguments!

The next guided Evolutionary Couples cohort starts in January 2026.  You can do just the self-paced portion of the program (12 Epic Dates) now and don’t have to wait.

Live Q&A calls are on Saturday evenings once a month, plus each month we’ll hold an “open zoom” for couples to meet and go do an Epic Date together.

  • January 2026
    • Co-Ed Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • February 2026
    • Men’s Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • March 2026
    • Women’s Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • April 2026
    • Co-Ed Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • May 2026
    • Men’s Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • June 2026 (off month)
  • July 2026
    • Women’s Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • August 2026
    • Co-Ed Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • September 2026
    • Men’s Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • October 2026
    • Women’s Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • November 2026
    • Co-Ed Q&A Call
    • Epic Date Spacehold
  • December 2026 (off month)

Now is the perfect time to strengthen your connection, alignment, joy, and passion as a couple! ❤️‍🔥

12 Epic Dates

Ready to get started right now?  Sign up for 12 Epic Dates to get a high-quality date experience delivered to you every month for 12 months upon sign up!

12 Epic Dates Self-Paced Course

Single Payment

$999.00

Three Monthly Payments

$333.00 / month for 3 months


Get 50% off 12 EPIC DATES!

  • For couples that would like to do the course without any live calls, coaching, or community
  • Twelve structured dates delivered over 12 months
  • Six polarity dates to increase your passion and desire
  • Six themed dates to increase your fun and connection
  • Additional bonus dates will be added over time

Evolutionary Couples

Experience all 12 Epic Dates and private VIP coaching with Jason and Violet.  Sign up now and begin your Dates ASAP.

Private VIP Coaching +
12 EPIC DATES Package

Single Payment

$7,500.00

Twelve Monthly Payments

$750.00 / month for 12 months

Get Private VIP coaching and join the next cohort of Evolutionary Couples starting in 2026 and get $3545 worth of bonuses

Six bonus one-on-one coaching sessions (Three with Violet, Three with Jason)

$1800 value
Live over video chat

Bonus 60-minute couples coaching session with Violet and Jason

$450 value
Live over video chat

For Her: A seat in violet's 8-week Sacred Sensuality Program

$795 value
Redeemable for 2026 cohort of Violet’s Sacred Sensuality program.

For Him: A seat in Jason's 12-week Men's Group Experience

$500 value
Redeemable during any cohort of Men’s Group Experience during 2026

  • Includes 12 Epic Dates Course
    • Twelve structured dates delivered over 12 months
  • Six private couples coaching sessions with Violet and Jason
  • Six one-on-one coaching sessions (three with Violet, three with Jason)
  • Private couples WhatsApp chat group with Violet & Jason
  • Private WhatsApp chat + voice notes for feminine partner (with Violet) and for masculine partner (with Jason)

Listen and Learn with Violet & Jason

What Couples Are Saying:

The Evolutionary Couples course gave us an additional resource to learn how to connect within our relationship. Personally, it gave me an understanding of what my partner really wants and needs. In addition, I learned that it’s okay for me to ask for what I need from our relationship. Thank you. We’re recommending this course to anybody that will listen!!

Shawn & Rosanne

Our experience from the Evolutionary Couples course with Violet and Jason was transformational. We came away with a deeper understanding of ourselves and each other. Learning the importance of slowing down to reconnect on a deep level, and we now have the tools to help us slow down and deeply connect in just a few minutes. Learning how to do this has completely shifted our relationship in such a good way and has welcomed uncomfortable/sticky conversations, in a healthy way, that previously would have been avoided. Thank you to both Violet and Jason for taking the time to share this juicy stuff =)
Kelsey & Darian

Our first date from 12 Epic Dates was awesome! It was definitely more than we expected. I’m so happy to have this amazing resource you put together! I love that it provides such great cues and practices for deepening our connection. It is really cool seeing (my partner) process the masculine / feminine dynamic. I am so relieved I don’t have to explain things like that. The class just allows us to experience it together and talk about it, without putting me in a teacher role. Thank you!

Donna Dyer

We are excited for you to join together with other couples on the path of conscious, embodied, and playful divine union.

This work is a powerful investment into the strength and commitment of your love as a couple, and also into the field of love itself…

which creates a new paradigm on Earth for healthy partnership, inspiring others to enhance their legacy, family, and community.

Reminder, the Evolutionary Couples program is limited to 12 couples.

Sign up now with the links above, and reach out to us with questions using the contact form below.

See you in January for our first live call!

xoxo Violet & Jason

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